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How to deal with guilt? There are many ways to help people troubled by guilt feelings. Guilt lets us know we may have done something wrong. And without it, we could act without conscience.
However, if these feelings are causing distress, try these three steps to free yourself from guilt.
Recognising the cause of your guilt
Firstly make sure you understand why you feel guilty. As well as how these feelings came about. Did you have any control over the situation? Are your feelings founded or have you lost perspective? Have you really harmed someone? Was it intentional?
Secondly, forgiving yourself requires an ability to look at a situation rationally. Often, an outside voice can help with this. Addressing your role in the harm caused. And thinking about why you did what you did. Understanding the cause and take steps for avoiding it in future. Thinking about whether you could make amends. And apologise if appropriate.
Thirdly, accepting you did something wrong is important. But we cannot change the past. Concentrating on your future actions and taking steps to move on. Punishing yourself with prolonged guilt isn’t helpful. Furthermore, it doesn’t make the injured parties feel any better.
If your guilt won’t go away and feels all-consuming, it’s likely you’re suffering with disproportionate guilt. In this case you may need help in resolving this. A life coach or hypnotherapist is extremely valuable in overcoming these feelings.
Find Relief From Guilt With Hypnotherapy
By overcoming your guilt you’ll be happier and more effective. Moreover your physical health will improve. In short, banishing your guilt making way for more positive thoughts. So you can enjoy helping others and yourself again. It’s a similar process to letting go of resentments and has many of the same benefits. You’ll become calmer, feel safer and have a healthier outlook on life.
In conclusion I use hypnotherapy to alleviate many people’s feelings of guilt. To read more about what to expect from hypnotherapy please click here.
If you’d like to learn about how it can relive guilt please do get in touch for a no-obligation discussion.