Are you having difficulties making important life decisions? If so help is at hand. Making big decisions can be stressful, anxiety inducing and emotional. We maybe feeling paralysed, unable to concentrate, sleep or eat. As well as feeling unsure how to proceed. The pressure surrounding many of life’s decisions can be overwhelming, especially without help.
Get In The Right Mindset
Getting some perspective when making difficult decisions is vital for a positive outcome. Asking yourself what’s the worst possible outcome? Are you making a ‘wrong’ decision? Could you change your mind once the choice is made?
Sometimes decisions are truly life changing. Moreover, people often overestimate how much a choice will influence their future. Are you having difficulties separating emotion from rational though?. Especially when it comes to your own life and future? Fortunately a healthy mindset is helpful in overcoming fear of making the decision.
Understanding yourself, your values and your own thought processes is important when making any decision. What’s really important to you in this process? What do you need to achieve? Don’t let too many outside voices influence your thoughts.
Try writing down the issues in order of priority and thinking about the pros and cons of each choice. If you feel like you need more information ask yourself what you can do to get it. We all make decisions differently – some of us are very rational and lose touch with our more emotional side whilst others listen to our ‘gut’ more. It’s important to be in touch with both for a well-considered decision.
Assessing What’s Holding You Back
It can be difficult to get to the core of what’s really stopping you make a decision. Are you scared of losing something or perhaps of what other people might think? Are you scared of missing out on something and if so what is that? It’s important to keep in touch with your own ideals, priorities and values.
Forgetting The Perfect Decision
When you’re making a decision it’s important to keep in mind that there is no perfect choice. Each choice will probably have positives and negatives so it’s just a case of making a decision that you’re happy with. Don’t try and wait for the perfect option or for the choice to suddenly become clear on its own.
Sometimes we get stuck between two black and white options but have you considered every possibility? Perhaps there is a third choice or compromise to be made.
Watching Out For Common Mistakes
There are a few common errors that we tend to make when making decisions. These including confirmation bias where we look for information that confirms what we believe we already know. Another is letting past events dictate to us what will happen in the future. And thirdly thinking we have invested so much in one situation it would be unwise to walk away. Many of these thought processes are hard wired into our minds and can be difficult to escape.
If you’d like to explore a specific difficult decision or just your decision making process in general I can help. Using a blend of coaching and advanced hypnotherapy treatments we can work together to forge a path to a decision that feels right for you. By helping you explore every option, uncovering your true feelings and fears. In short reaching a final solution.
If you’d like to learn more please do get in touch.